My lemonade! when lives gives you lemons make lemonade! is the old saying but even for that one still needs water and sugar or other wise all we have to show for is lemon juice, so all we can really do is make the best from the worst which is better then nothing. I lost my cat last year in a very awkward situation and that kind bombed me out for a good while but now where a live there are a few strays and I kept to habit of feeding them and even do they don't live with me I get the satisfaction of looking  at them and the joy I feel also has come back and in all honesty the way I see it is like having a friends with benefits in this case the cat minus the litter box which is a very good deal. Live gave me the lemons and with my attitude "water&sugar" Aim making my lemonade.      The good thing about life is hope because hope is the force that keeps us dreaming about that better future the place we know we will be because we all ready there.